We landed in Delhi and set about getting the metro to our hostel. The only problem was we were in the middle of rush hour, on a Friday evening, and we had our backpacks.
The first train from the airport to the city was ok, but then it became sheer madness. Trains were packed when they pulled into stations and people had to fight their way off whilst people were fighting their way on. We’d think a train was full, only for another surge of passengers to push themselves on. Not surprising in a city with a mind-boggling 25 million people.
With one man’s face squashed against my shoulder, we arrived at our stop. Using our backpacks as battering rams we wriggled ourselves off, already giving up on trying to apologise to the hundreds of people we’d bumped. I promise I’ll never complain about the Underground again.
At the station, we had our first photo request. A man asked if his wife and baby could take a picture with us. We accepted, because of the baby.
As time went on, Amy resorted to taking people’s phones as a way of preventing unwanted photographs. Not sure why more people have wanted photos with her than with me…
After struggling with Sri Lanka, we booked a G Adventures tour for some of our time in India. After meeting our group and surviving our first overnight train, we arrived in Bikaner.
My god it was hot. Not perfect camel-riding weather, but off we went into the semi-desert.
I’ve been on camels before, but only for short amounts of time. After a while on Stewy (I couldn’t pronounce his actual name), I started to get seriously uncomfortable. By the time we arrived at our camp, I could barely feel my legs. It hurt every time I sat down, for the next week.
However, it could have been worse. Lawrence (a member of our group) wasn’t feeling great, and I don’t think the motion of the camel helped. He eventually had to disembark and waddle the rest of the way to the camp toilet; which emptied straight into the sand.
The semi-desert was FREEZING at night, even after some Indian rum. The moon and the stars made the sleepless night more bearable. However, by the time we got back to Bikaner, we were looking forward to sleep.
“What time?!”
Giri, our leader, had an obsession with 5:45am. It felt like every morning we had to wake up at a time I’d still call night. Early trains took us to Jaiselmer and Jodhpur, where we explored two of the largest forts in India.
Our next stop was Udaipur. Tuk-tuk drivers were fighting over us when we got off the bus, and our driver looked very angry when he sat down. Connor, Lawrence and I were talking about how it was amazing we hadn’t seen an accident yet on the hectic roads. We had just finished praising Indian drivers when ours, still angry, decided to veer into a cyclist. Our driver stopped, not to check he was ok but to shout abuse at him. “Drunk” he murmured to us. We weren’t convinced.
We liked Udaipur immediately, mainly because the place we went for lunch offered a respite from curry and rice and bread and spice. Our tour included a trip to a local art centre. The manager wanted to show his talents so painted something on everyone’s fingernail. There were elephants and princesses, but mine was a scene straight from the pages of the karma sutra. Thankfully, insect repellent also works as nail varnish remover.
In Udaipur we also took part in a cooking class, and had our palms read. I was sceptical at first, but changed my mind when he correctly (although admittedly vaguely) guessed things about my past. He told me that I will change my career at 31, hopefully from accountant to professional cocktail taster. I was also informed that I’d be having two boys and a girl (not yet, calm down Mum), but he failed to mention anything about Brighton’s promotion chances this season. Or my imminent stomach problems…
After surviving Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, Indonesia, and some of Mum’s cooking, I thought I’d be immune to ‘Delhi Belly’.
I wasn’t, and I spent the next day at a random village trying to sleep it off. The less we speak about it, the better.
Isobel had told me her friend Abby was in India but I dismissed it. After all, it’s a big country. I thought the odds of seeing her were like when you tell someone you’re from the UK, and they ask if you know their mate Tom. But unbelievably, at a cafe on the side of the road somewhere in Rajasthan, a little voice said:
“Ian?”
I was almost doubled-over in pain from my stomach, so wasn’t in the mood to be very sociable. Thankfully, Amy made enough small talk for the both of us, so I could mercifully just smile and nod. Abby, I promise I’ll be more talkative next time we meet!
After village life, we were thrust back into the fast lane in Jaipur. I’d developed a pretty good technique for crossing the road, something akin to that scene in Jurassic World where Chris Pratt tries to keep the velociraptors at bay.
It was the first day of Diwali, which meant everyone was shopping. I kept my purchases small, sticking to some suspiciously cheap saffron, which Lawrence assured me was ‘worth £50’ (it wasn’t) and a ticket to the latest Bollywood release.
The film, Shivaay, was in Hindi but relatively easy to follow. The main character impregnated a Bulgarian climber during an avalanche and was left to look after their kid alone. On a trip to find her mother, she was kidnapped and Shivaay had to spring into action to save her from some evil Russians. It DEFINITELY wasn’t anything like Taken. Not at all.
Strangely, I loved it. The audience infectiously cheered and hollered in all the right places. The highlight was Shivaay managing to avoid getting hit when a helicopter was shooting at him straight-on from around 10 yards. However, it was far far far too long. Like Lord Of The Rings Extended Editions long.
Talking about the film afterwards, Giri told us that Russians all looked like boiled eggs and potatoes. Apparently, there are loads in Goa and they all look the same. Boiled eggs, and potatoes.
From Bollywood, we made it to India’s most iconic attraction. Another early start saw us in front of the Taj Mahal before all the rest of the tourists arrived. It’s incredible.
The myth is that there was meant to be a Black Taj on the other side of the river. However, Shah Jahan’s son was annoyed as he was spending too much money, so sent him to prison. I wonder if I can do the same with Amy, if she keeps buying cashew butter.
Our overnight train from Agra to Varanasi was meant to leave at 22:40. We were warned that it was one of the ‘most delayed trains in India’ but still couldn’t quite believe it when it rocked up at around 3am.
I woke up at midday and was told there was a very long way to go. After 18 hours (!!!!) on the train, we arrived at our destination. But the train was so late, that it wasn’t even given a platform.
We had to climb down and cross the tracks, before jumping up onto the platform. This was particularly disgusting, as the toilets on Indian trains empty straight onto the tracks. Walking across in the dark was like playing minesweeper with your eyes closed; one of us was bound to hit a landmine. So, when Rosie stepped in a ‘puddle’ and said she felt something ‘wet’ on her foot, we refused to go near her until she’d showered. At least twice.
Varanasi is one of the most interesting places I’ve ever been to. I vaguely remember learning about it in RE lessons at school, but there was something mesmerising about the riverside.
It was also poignant that we were there at this time. We all lit a floating candle on the river and dedicated them to people in our lives who were sadly no longer there. Mine was for my Grandmother, who had passed away a few days before. I’m not sure if she’d ever heard of Varanasi, but I’m sure the image would have made her smile.
I thought about going home, but everyone told me to keep adventuring as it’s what she would have wanted. As well as looking after me all the time my stomach has hurt, Amy has been a rock.
Recently she’s been trying to feed me all the pizza as I’ve lost a little weight because of my India-related ‘troubles’. I knew something was wrong when Isaac commented on an Instagram photo saying he thinks he weighs more than me now. I’ve seen twigs with more muscle than him.
NEXT TIME: Yoga, the 5 hours we spent at the bank, and a late decision to run away from the rain and go to Goa.
Thanks for reading.
ID & AP
PS no Russians were offended during the writing of this post.